{"id":130,"date":"2008-12-09T19:18:52","date_gmt":"2008-12-09T23:18:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/natashasworld.com\/journal\/?p=130"},"modified":"2008-12-09T19:28:23","modified_gmt":"2008-12-09T23:28:23","slug":"december-08-updates-and-a-song","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.natashasworld.com\/journal\/2008\/12\/09\/december-08-updates-and-a-song\/","title":{"rendered":"December &#8217;08 Updates and a Song"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Wow, I can&#8217;t believe how quickly this year has gone by. It seems like yesterday that I was celebrating New Years and now Christmas is only 2 weeks away.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of holidays, this past Thanksgiving reminded me of how much I have to be grateful for. I have been blessed with awesome and patient friends, supportive family, good health, all of my basic necessities and then some, and a job that helps me pay bills and provides me with many opportunities to learn about myself.\u00a0 Thank you, thank you, thank you!!<\/p>\n<p>In addition to being grateful for my blessings, I have also made the following 3 realizations about building friendship with men:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>If I just meet a guy and start falling for him,\u00a0 maybe what I&#8217;m falling for are the character\/physical attributes he has that I would want in a future husband.<\/li>\n<li>Upon considering Realization #1, I should make a running list of these attributes.<\/li>\n<li>If after Realization # 1 &amp; 2\u00a0 I still have warm and tingly feelings for this new guy,\u00a0 then I should be careful not to quickly throw my heart at him. Instead, I could consider allowing the relationship to naturally develop into what it&#8217;s meant to become.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>The three realizations above seem so simple, yet it&#8217;s amazing how many women I meet who never take the time to consider any of them, especially # 2 and #3 &#8211; and I have been guilty of this before myself. After applying the three realizations above, I find that I have so much more clarity and my friendships are full of depth while being light and fun.<\/p>\n<p>On that note, I will leave you with the words of one of my favorite songs from one of my favorite Disney movies, &#8220;Rodgers And Hammerstein&#8217;s Cinderella&#8221;. This song was sang by both Cinderella and the Prince while they danced the night away. Enjoy and Happy Holidays. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Do I love you because you&#8217;re beautiful,<br \/>\nor are you beautiful because I love you?<br \/>\nAm I making believe I see in you<br \/>\na girl too lovely to be really true?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Do I want you because you&#8217;re wonderful,<br \/>\nor are you wonderful because I want you?<br \/>\nAre you the sweet invention of a lover&#8217;s dream<br \/>\nor are you really as beautiful as you seem?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Am I making believe I see in you<br \/>\na man too perfect to be really true?<br \/>\nDo I want you because you&#8217;re wonderful,<br \/>\nor are you wonderful because I want you?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Are you the sweet invention of a lover&#8217;s dream<br \/>\nor are you really as wonderful as you seem?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Wow, I can&#8217;t believe how quickly this year has gone by. It seems like yesterday that I was celebrating New Years and now Christmas is only 2 weeks away. Speaking of holidays, this past Thanksgiving reminded me of how much I have to be grateful for. 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